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2008/1/23

鲜儿----闯关东

鲜儿,我苦命的人!
命运显然是跟她开了个玩笑。

唉!
[唉,其实是编剧给我们开了个玩笑]

1,鲜儿背叛了父母,和传文私奔闯关东!
因被老爹锁禁闭,没按时到约会地点。
当赶到渡口时,传文已和家人上船。
此时,传文被传武一脚踢下了水,
传文和鲜儿就只能走水路去关东,
命运之神也就在这一时刻开始捉弄她了。
唉!

2,传文路上病了。
为了爱情,她只能选择成为了一个8,9岁的小孩粮的妻子。
后来东家发现传文和鲜儿的感情,
略施小计,传文和鲜儿失散了。
唉!

3,鲜儿跟了戏班,
成了名角,
结果被恶霸看上,
为救班主,
不得不委身于人。
唉!

4,跑到林场,
突遇了离家出走的传武。
传武一次受伤,
鲜儿救了传武。
传武为救鲜儿于林场一恶霸之手,
与恶霸决斗。
最后鲜儿再次不辞而别。
唉!

5,被格格在路上救走,
当上了丫环,结果格格最后居然嫁给了传文。
结婚时,被传武发现。
传文,传武的老爹老朱思前想后,将鲜儿收为义女。
结果在传武和另一个女人结婚的当晚,
传武和鲜儿私奔。
唉!

6,传武和鲜儿跟到独臂一起走水场子。
鲜儿生病,好不容易熬过。
病好,鲜儿和传武正打算定居过日子,
被散兵袭击,传武中枪失踪。
鲜儿哭找,不得。
偶然机会,
原以为跟着山货生意人过日子,
没想到居然是土匪满子,
成了二当家。
唉!

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2008/1/17

史蒂夫·乔布斯职业生涯中十大精彩瞬间

《福布斯》今天发表分析文章称,苹果CEO史蒂夫·乔布斯(Steve Jobs)堪称是科技行业的“终结者”,没有什么能阻挡他前进的脚步,包括癌症、被自己创建的公司驱逐、以及微软创始人比尔·盖茨(Bill Gates)。
得益于iPod音乐播放器、iPhone多媒体手机、以及Mac计算机的热销,苹果股价过去十年上涨了38倍以上。与之相比,微软股价在此期间仅上涨了一倍。在乔布斯漫长的职业生涯中,有很多瞬间给人们留下了深刻的印象,其中最为精彩的是下面十大瞬间:

  1、年少成名

  当乔布斯创建苹果时,还只是一名普通的大学辍学生。他与好友史蒂夫·沃兹尼亚克(Steve Wozniak)一起,在很短时间内就将苹果由一家DIY计算机的手工作坊发展成为全球计算机巨头。

苹果CEO职业生涯中十大精彩瞬间(组图)
少年乔布斯

  2、Mac来袭

   乔布斯1984年推出的苹果Mac是否给整个计算机行业带来了一场革命?对于这一问题,也许每个人都有不同的答案。但至少,它给微软带来了一些很好的创 意。尽管Mac从未垄断计算机行业,但它却是第一款采用点击用户界面的大众计算机,堪称是Windows的“前辈”。直到现在,仍有很多“粉丝”认为苹果 的用户界面不可超越。

苹果CEO职业生涯中十大精彩瞬间(组图)
乔布斯和最早的苹果计算机

  3、被驱逐的人

  为了从百事可乐挖来约翰·斯库利(John Sculley),乔布斯说出了也许是他一生中最具说服力的话,“你想一辈子卖糖水,还是改变整个世界?”但是,当斯库利就任苹果CEO几年之后,乔布斯却被他一手创建的公司驱逐。

苹果CEO职业生涯中十大精彩瞬间(组图)
乔布斯(左)和约翰·斯库利(右)

  4、创建NeXT

   上世纪90年代中期,苹果陷入了困境,曾经主导过驱逐乔布斯好戏的斯库利最终也被驱逐。苹果的产品线缺乏吸引力,更为糟糕的是,该公司一直引以为自豪的 操作系统业丧失了优势。与此同时,乔布斯创建了一家新公司——NeXT计算机,主要开发工作站。有“互联网之父”美誉的蒂姆·伯纳斯-李(Tim Berners-Lee)最初就是在一台NeXT工作站上创建了最早的网站。1996年,苹果宣布收购NeXT,标志着乔布斯的回归。

苹果CEO职业生涯中十大精彩瞬间(组图)
乔布斯从头创业

  5、史蒂夫和比尔

  与你的好友保持密切联系,与你的敌人要更加密切。1997年,微软宣布投资苹果,给这家深处困境的公司打了一针“强心剂”。但在当时,很多苹果“粉丝”看到微软CEO盖茨出现在大屏幕上宣布这一交易时,都感到十分绝望。现在回顾起来,他们已经没有任何担心。

苹果CEO职业生涯中十大精彩瞬间(组图)(2)
微软投资苹果

  6、你好,iMac

   1998年8月15日,苹果发布了首款iMac。这是这款产品扭转了苹果的命运,并为其未来的发展指明了方向。Macintosh重新回到全集成设计, 并开始采用不同颜色的机箱外观。iMac在消费市场获得了巨大的成功,从发布到2003年初退出市场,原始版本的iMac共售出了600多万台。

苹果CEO职业生涯中十大精彩瞬间(组图)(2)
乔布斯与iMac

  7、iPod诞生

   2001年11月10日,苹果发布了iPod数字音乐播放器。过去几年里,苹果的PDA(Newton和eMate)及游戏系统也采用了各种创新,但并 未获得成功。iPod则完全不同,它是Mac精神的延伸,其设计和发布时机堪称完美。从某种意义上讲,乔布斯给数字音乐行业带来了一场革命。

苹果CEO职业生涯中十大精彩瞬间(组图)(2)
乔布斯发布iPod

  8、结盟英特尔

  2006年1月10日,乔布斯同英特尔CEO欧德宁一起展示了第一款采用英特尔处理器的Mac计算机,这令很多Mac“粉丝”难以想象。乔布斯表示,苹果放弃Power PC芯片主要由于该产品开发过于缓慢。

苹果CEO职业生涯中十大精彩瞬间(组图)(2)
苹果结盟英特尔

  9、皮克斯奇迹

  除了计算机、音乐和手机行业外,乔布斯还改变了电影行业的格局。乔布斯创建的皮克斯电影工作室赋予了电影动画全新的含义,为全世界观众奉献了《海底总动员》等优秀的数字影片。2006年,迪斯尼以74亿美元收购了皮克斯,从而乔布斯成为了迪斯尼最大的个人股东。

苹果CEO职业生涯中十大精彩瞬间(组图)(3)
乔布斯创造了皮克斯的动画奇迹

  10、抵御病魔

   当乔布斯最初确诊为癌症时,医生认为他已经时日无多。但是,他从未被病魔吓倒,一直保持着健康人的工作状态和心情。从一定程度上讲,正是癌症造就了 2005年在斯坦福大学的一个经典时刻。乔布斯当时在学生的毕业典礼上说:“死亡可能是生命的最佳创新,因为它将彻底改变你的生命。死亡让老人消失,从而 为年轻人让路。现在你们是年轻人,但未来会逐步变为老人并消失。也许我的讲话过于戏剧性,但这是事实。”

苹果CEO职业生涯中十大精彩瞬间(组图)(3)
乔布斯参加斯坦福大学的一个毕业典礼

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Stay Hungry,Stay Foolish

2005年在斯坦福大学毕业典礼演讲

——苹果电脑公司首席执行官 史蒂夫·乔布斯

很荣幸和大家一道参加这所世界上最好的一座大学的毕业典礼。我大学没毕业,说实话,这是我第一次离大学毕业典礼这么近。今天我想给大家讲三个我自己的故事,不讲别的,也不讲大道理,就讲三个故事。

  第一个故事:点与点的关系

  我在里德学院(Reed College)只读了六个月就退学了,此后便在学校里旁听,又过了大约一年半,我彻底离开。那么,我为什么退学呢?

  这得从我出生前讲起。我的生母是一名年轻的未婚在校研究生,她决定将我送给别人收养。她非常希望收养我的是有大学学历的人,所以把一切都安排好了,我一出生就交给一对律师夫妇收养。没想到我落地的霎那间,那对夫妇却决定收养一名女孩。就这样,我的养父母─ 当时他们还在登记册上排队等著呢─半夜三更接到一个电话: “我们这儿有一个没人要的男婴,你们要么?”“当然要”他们回答。但是,我的生母后来发现我的养母不是大学毕业生,我的养父甚至连中学都没有毕业,所以她拒绝在最后的收养文件上签字。不过,没过几个月她就心软了,因为我的养父母许诺日后一定送我上大学。

  17 年后,我真的进了大学。当时我很天真,选了一所学费几乎和斯坦福大学一样昂贵的学校,当工人的养父母倾其所有的积蓄为我支付了大学学费。读了六个月后,我却看不出上学有什么意义。我既不知道自己这一生想干什么,也不知道大学是否能够帮我弄明白自己想干什么 。这时,我就要花光父母一辈子节省下来的钱了。所以,我决定退学,并且坚信日后会证明我这样做是对的。当年做出这个决定时心里直打鼓,但现在回想起来,这还真是我有生以来做出的最好的决定之一。从退学那一刻起,我就可以不再选那些我毫无兴趣的必修课,开始 旁听一些看上去有意思的课。 那些日子一点儿都不浪漫。我没有宿舍,只能睡在朋友房间的地板上。我去退还可乐瓶,用那五分钱的押金来买吃的。每个星期天晚上我都要走七英里,到城那头的黑尔-科里施纳礼拜堂去,吃每周才能享用一次的美餐。我喜欢这样。我凭著好奇心和直觉所干的这些事情, 有许多后来都证明是无价之宝。我给大家举个例子: 当时,里德学院的书法课大概是全国最好的。校园里所有的公告栏和每个抽屉标签上的字都写得非常漂亮。当时我已经退学,不用正常上课,所以我决定选一门书法课,学学怎么写好字。我学习写带短截线和不带短截线的印刷字体,根据不同字母组合调整其间距,以及怎样 把版式调整得好上加好。这门课太棒了,既有历史价值,又有艺术造诣,这一点科学就做不到,而我觉得它妙不可浴?

  当时我并不指望书法在以后的生活中能有什么实用价值。但是,十年之后,我们在设计第一台 Macintosh 计算机时,它一下子浮现在我眼前。于是,我们把这些东西全都设计进了计算机中。这是第一台有这么漂亮的文字版式的计算机。要不是我当初在大学里偶然选了这么一门课,Macintosh 计算机绝不会有那么多种印刷字体或间距安排合理的字号。要不是 Windows 照搬了 Macintosh,个人电脑可能不会有这些字体和字号。要不是退了学,我决不会碰巧选了这门书法课,个人电脑也可能不会有现在这些漂亮的版式了。当然,我在大学里不可能从这一点上看到它与将来的关系。十年之后再回头看,两者之间的关系就非常、非常清楚了 。 你们同样不可能从现在这个点上看到将来;只有回头看时,才会发现它们之间的关系。所以,要相信这些点迟早会连接到一起。你们必须信赖某些东西─直觉、归宿、生命,还有业力,等等。这样做从来没有让我的希望落空过,而且还彻底改变了我的生活。

  第二个故事:好恶与得失

  幸运的是,我在很小的时候就发现自己喜欢做什么。我在 20 岁时和沃兹(Woz,苹果公司创始人之一 Wozon 的昵称─译注)在我父母的车库里办起了苹果公司。我们干得很卖力,十年后,苹果公司就从车库里我们两个人发展成为一个拥有 20 亿元资产、4,000 名员工的大企业。那时,我们刚刚推出了我们最好的产品─ Macintosh 电脑─那是在第 9 年,我刚满 30 岁。可后来,我被解雇了。你怎么会被自己办的公司解雇呢?是这样,随著苹果公司越做越大,我们聘了一位我认为非常有才华的人与我一道管理公司。在开始的一年多里,一切都很顺利。可是,随后我俩对公司前景的看法开始出现分歧,最后我俩反目了。这时,董事会站 在了他那一边,所以在 30 岁那年,我离开了公司,而且这件事闹得满城风雨。我成年后的整个生活重心都没有了,这使我心力交瘁。

  一连几个月,我真的不知道应该怎么办。我感到自己给老一代的创业者丢了脸─因为我扔掉了交到自己手里的接力棒。我去见了戴维 帕卡德(David Packard,惠普公司创始人之一─译注)和鲍勃 诺伊斯(Bob Noyce,英特尔公司创建者之一─译注),想为把事情搞得这么糟糕说声道歉。这次失败弄得沸沸扬扬的,我甚至想过逃离硅谷。但是,渐渐地,我开始有了一个想法─我仍然热爱我过去做的一切。在苹果公司发生的这些风波丝毫没有改变这一点。我虽然被拒之门外, 但我仍然深爱我的事业。于是,我决定从头开始。

  虽然当时我并没有意识到,但事实证明,被苹果公司炒鱿鱼是我一生中碰到的最好的事情。尽管前景未卜,但从头开始的轻松感取代了保持成功的沉重感。这使我进入了一生中最富有创造力的时期之一。 在此后的五年里,我开了一家名叫 NeXT 的公司和一家叫皮克斯的公司,我还爱上一位了不起的女人,后来娶了她。皮克斯公司推出了世界上第一部用电脑制作的动画片《玩具总动员》(Toy Story),它现在是全球最成功的动画制作室。世道轮回,苹果公司买下 NeXT 后,我又回到了苹果公司,我们在 NeXT 公司开发的技术成了苹果公司这次重新崛起的核心。我和劳伦娜(Laurene)也建立了美满的家庭。

  我确信,如果不是被苹果公司解雇,这一切决不可能发生。这是一剂苦药,可我认为苦药利于病。有时生活会当头给你一棒,但不要灰心。我坚信让我一往无前的唯一力量就是我热爱我所做的一切。所以,一定得知道自己喜欢什么,选择爱人时如此,选择工作时同样如此。 工作将是生活中的一大部分,让自己真正满意的唯一办法,是做自己认为是有意义的工作;做有意义的工作的唯一办法,是热爱自己的工作。你们如果还没有发现自己喜欢什么,那就不断地去寻找,不要急于做出决定。就像一切要凭著感觉去做的事情一样,一旦找到了自己喜欢的事,感觉就会告诉你。就像任何一种美妙的东西,历久弥新。所以说,要不断地寻找,直到找到自己喜欢的东西。不要半途而废。

  第三个故事:关于死亡

  17 岁那年,我读到过这样一段话,大意是:“如果把每一天都当作生命的最后一天,总有一天你会如愿以偿。”我记住了这句话,从那时起,33 年过去了,我每天早晨都对著镜子自问: “假如今天是生命的最后一天,我还会去做今天要做的事吗?”如果一连许多天我的回答都是“不”,我知道自己应该有所改变了。

  让我能够做出人生重大抉择的最主要办法是,记住生命随时都有可能结束。因为几乎所有的东西─所有对自身之外的希求、所有的尊严、所有对困窘和失败的恐惧─在死亡来临时都将不复存在,只剩下真正重要的东西。记住自己随时都会死去,这是我所知道的防止患得患失 的最好方法。你已经一无所有了,还有什么理由不跟著自己的感觉走呢。

  大约一年前,我被诊断患了癌症。那天早上七点半,我做了一次扫描检查,结果清楚地表明我的胰腺上长了一个瘤子,可那时我连胰腺是什么还不知道呢!医生告诉我说,几乎可以确诊这是一种无法治愈的恶性肿瘤,我最多还能活 3 到 6 个月。医生建议我回去把一切都安排好,其实这是在暗示“准备后事”。也就是说,把今后十年要跟孩子们说的事情在这几个月内嘱咐完;也就是说,把一切都安排妥当,尽可能不给家人留麻烦;也就是说,去跟大家诀别。

  那一整天里,我的脑子一直没离开这个诊断。到了晚上,我做了一次组织切片检查,他们把一个内窥镜通过喉咙穿过我的胃进入肠子,用针头在胰腺的瘤子上取了一些细胞组织。当时我用了麻醉剂,陪在一旁的妻子后来告诉我,医生在显微镜里看了细胞之后叫了起来,原来 这是一种少见的可以通过外科手术治愈的恶性肿瘤。我做了手术,现在好了。

  这是我和死神离得最近的一次,我希望也是今后几十年里最近的一次。有了这次经历之后,现在我可以更加实在地和你们谈论死亡,而不是纯粹纸上谈兵,那就是: 谁都不愿意死。就是那些想进天堂的人也不愿意死后再进。然而,死亡是我们共同的归宿,没人能摆脱。我们注定会死,因为死亡很可能是生命最好的一项发明。它推进生命的变迁,旧的不去,新的不来。现在,你们就是新的,但在不久的将来,你们也会逐渐成为旧的,也 会被淘汰。对不起,话说得太过分了,不过这是千真万确的。

  你们的时间都有限,所以不要按照别人的意愿去活,这是浪费时间。不要囿于成见,那是在按照别人设想的结果而活。不要让别人观点的聒噪声淹没自己的心声。最主要的是,要有跟著自己感觉和直觉走的勇气。无论如何,感觉和直觉早就知道你到底想成为什么样的人,其 他都是次要的。

  我年轻时有一本非常好的刊物,叫《全球概览》(The Whole Earth Catalog),这是我那代人的宝书之一,创办人名叫斯图尔特 布兰德(Stewart Brand),就住在离这儿不远的门洛帕克市。他用诗一般的语言把刊物办得生动活泼。那是 20 世纪 60 年代末,还没有个人电脑和桌面印刷系统,全靠打字机、剪刀和宝丽莱照相机(Polaroid)。它就像一种纸质的 Google,却比 Google 早问世了 35 年。这份刊物太完美了,查阅手段齐备、构思不凡。

  斯图尔特和他的同事们出了好几期《全球概览》,到最后办不下去时,他们出了最后一期。那是 20 世纪 70 年代中期,我也就是你们现在的年纪。最后一期的封底上是一张清晨乡间小路的照片,就是那种爱冒险的人等在那儿搭便车的那种小路。照片下面写道: 好学若饥、谦卑若愚。那是他们停刊前的告别辞。求知若渴,大智若愚。这也是我一直想做到的。眼下正值诸位大学毕业、开始新生活之际,我同样愿大家: 好学若饥、谦卑若愚。


Steve Jobs:Three stories from my life
    You've got to find what you love,' Jobs says. 

    This is the text of the Commencement address by Steve Jobs, CEO of Apple Computer and of Pixar Animation Studios, delivered on June 12, 2005.

    I am honored to be with you today at your commencement from one of the finest universities in the world. I never graduated from college. Truth be told, this is the closest I've ever gotten to a college graduation. Today I want to tell you three stories from my life. That's it. No big deal. Just three stories.

    The first story is about connecting the dots.

    I dropped out of Reed College after the first 6 months, but then stayed around as a drop-in for another 18 months or so before I really quit. So why did I drop out?
    It started before I was born. My biological mother was a young, unwed college graduate student, and she decided to put me up for adoption. She felt very strongly that I should be adopted by college graduates, so everything was all set for me to be adopted at birth by a lawyer and his wife. Except that when I popped out they decided at the last minute that they really wanted a girl. So my parents, who were on a waiting list, got a call in the middle of the night asking: "We have an unexpected baby boy; do you want him?" They said: "Of course." My biological mother later found out that my mother had never graduated from college and that my father had never graduated from high school. She refused to sign the final adoption papers. She only relented a few months later when my parents promised that I would someday go to college.
    And 17 years later I did go to college. But I naively chose a college that was almost as expensive as Stanford, and all of my working-class parents' savings were being spent on my college tuition. After six months, I couldn't see the value in it. I had no idea what I wanted to do with my life and no idea how college was going to help me figure it out. And here I was spending all of the money my parents had saved their entire life. So I decided to drop out and trust that it would all work out OK. It was pretty scary at the time, but looking back it was one of the best decisions I ever made. The minute I dropped out I could stop taking the required classes that didn't interest me, and begin dropping in on the ones that looked interesting.

    It wasn't all romantic. I didn't have a dorm room, so I slept on the floor in friends' rooms, I returned coke bottles for the 5¢ deposits to buy food with, and I would walk the 7 miles across town every Sunday night to get one good meal a week at the Hare Krishna temple. I loved it. And much of what I stumbled into by following my curiosity and intuition turned out to be priceless later on. Let me give you one example: Reed College at that time offered perhaps the best calligraphy instruction in the country. Throughout the campus every poster, every label on every drawer, was beautifully hand calligraphed. Because I had dropped out and didn't have to take the normal classes, I decided to take a calligraphy class to learn how to do this. I learned about serif and san serif typefaces, about varying the amount of space between different letter combinations, about what makes great typography great. It was beautiful,historical, artistically subtle in a way that science can't capture, and I found it fascinating.
    None of this had even a hope of any practical application in my life. But ten years later, when we were designing the first Macintosh computer, it all came back to me. And we designed it all into the Mac. It was the first computer with beautiful typography. If I had never dropped in on that single course in college, the Mac would have never had multiple typefaces or proportionally spaced fonts. And since Windows just copied the Mac, its likely that no personal computer would have them. If I had never dropped out, I would have never dropped in on this calligraphy class, and personal computers might not have the wonderful typography that they do. Of course it was impossible to connect the dots looking forward when I was in college. But it was very, very clear looking backwards ten years later.
    Again, you can't connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something — your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. This approach has never let me down, and it has made all the difference in my life.
    My second story is about love and loss.
    I was lucky — I found what I loved to do early in life. Woz and I started Apple in my parents garage when I was 20. We worked hard, and in 10 years Apple had grown from just the two of us in a garage into a $2 billion company with over 4000 employees. We had just released our finest creation — the Macintosh — a year earlier, and I had just turned 30. And then I got fired. How can you get fired from a company you started? Well, as Apple grew we hired someone who I thought was very talented to run the company with me, and for the first year or so things went well. But then our visions of the future began to diverge and eventually we had a falling out. When we did, our Board of Directors sided with him. So at 30 I was out. And very publicly out. What had been the focus of my entire adult life was gone, and it was devastating.
    I really didn't know what to do for a few months. I felt that I had let the previous generation of entrepreneurs down - that I had dropped the baton as it was being passed to me. I met with David Packard and Bob Noyce and tried to apologize for screwing up so badly. I was a very public failure, and I even thought about running away from the valley. But something slowly began to dawn on me — I still loved what I did. The turn of events at Apple had not changed that one bit. I had been rejected, but I was still in love. And so I decided to start over.
    I didn't see it then, but it turned out that getting fired from Apple was the best thing that could have ever happened to me. The heaviness of being successful was replaced by the lightness of being a beginner again, less sure about everything. It freed me to enter one of the most creative periods of my life.
    During the next five years, I started a company named NeXT, another company named Pixar, and fell in love with an amazing woman who would become my wife. Pixar went on to create the worlds first computer animated feature film, Toy Story, and is now the most successful animation studio in the world. In a remarkable turn of events, Apple bought NeXT, I retuned to Apple, and the technology we developed at NeXT is at the heart of Apple's current renaissance. And Laurene and I have a wonderful family together.
    I'm pretty sure none of this would have happened if I hadn't been fired from Apple. It was awful tasting medicine, but I guess the patient needed it. Sometimes life hits you in the head with a brick. Don't lose faith. I'm convinced that the only thing that kept me going was that I loved what I did. You've got to find what you love. And that is as true for your work as it is for your lovers. Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven't found it yet, keep looking. Don't settle. As with all matters of the heart, you'll know when you find it. And, like any great relationship, it just gets better and better as the years roll on. So keep looking until you find it. Don't settle.
    My third story is about death.
    When I was 17, I read a quote that went something like: "If you live each day as if it was your last, someday you'll most certainly be right." It made an impression on me, and since then, for the past 33 years, I have looked in the mirror every morning and asked myself: "If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today?" And whenever the answer has been "No" for too many days in a row, I know I need to change something.
    Remembering that I'll be dead soon is the most important tool I've ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life. Because almost everything — all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure - these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important. Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart.
    About a year ago I was diagnosed with cancer. I had a scan at 7:30 in the morning, and it clearly showed a tumor on my pancreas. I didn't even know what a pancreas was. The doctors told me this was almost certainly a type of cancer that is incurable, and that I should expect to live no longer than three to six months. My doctor advised me to go home and get my affairs in order, which is doctor's code for prepare to die. It means to try to tell your kids everything you thought you'd have the next 10 years to tell them in just a few months. It means to make sure everything is buttoned up so that it will be as easy as possible for your family. It means to say your goodbyes.
    I lived with that diagnosis all day. Later that evening I had a biopsy, where they stuck an endoscope down my throat, through my stomach and into my intestines, put a needle into my pancreas and got a few cells from the tumor. I was sedated, but my wife, who was there, told me that when they viewed the cells under a microscope the doctors started crying because it turned out to be a very rare form of pancreatic cancer that is curable with surgery. I had the surgery and I'm fine now.
    This was the closest I've been to facing death, and I hope its the closest I get for a few more decades. Having lived through it, I can now say this to you with a bit more certainty than when death was a useful but purely intellectual concept: No one wants to die. Even people who want to go to heaven don't want to die to get there. And yet death is the destination we all share. No one has ever escaped it. And that is as it should be, because Death is very likely the single best invention of Life. It is Life's change agent. It clears out the old to make way for the new. Right now the new is you, but someday not too long from now, you will gradually become the old and be cleared away. Sorry to be so dramatic, but it is quite true.
    Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't be trapped by dogma — which is living with the results of other people's thinking. Don't let the noise of others' opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.
    When I was young, there was an amazing publication called The Whole Earth Catalog, which was one of the bibles of my generation. It was created by a fellow named Stewart Brand not far from here in Menlo Park, and he brought it to life with his poetic touch. This was in the late 1960's, before personal computers and desktop publishing, so it was all made with typewriters, scissors, and polaroid cameras. It was sort of like Google in paperback form, 35 years before Google came along: it was idealistic, and overflowing with neat tools and great notions.
    Stewart and his team put out several issues of The Whole Earth Catalog, and then when it had run its course, they put out a final issue. It was the mid-1970s, and I was your age. On the back cover of their final issue was a photograph of an early morning country road, the kind you might find yourself hitchhiking on if you were so adventurous. Beneath it were the words: "Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish." It was their farewell message as they signed off. Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish. And I have always wished that for myself. And now, as you graduate to begin anew, I wish that for you.
    Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish.
    Thank you all very much.

2008/1/16

Boston.Legal

College is a place
where we teach our children,
believing they are our future.

Do we really want a future
of social intolerance,
where people are ostracized
for being shy,
where the beautiful
and the popular are celebrated,
and the less attractive
and the awkward are scorned?

Gamma kappa tau is a national club
promoting a message that is as intolerant
as it should be unacceptable.

I suppose it's one thing if they never
wanted to invite Marcie Cooper in.

But having invited her,
to throw her out on grounds
of social unfitness,
shame on them.



============================
College is also about preparing
students for the outside world.

Last time I checked,
it's pretty tough out there.
There's the old adage,
"nice guys finish last."
There's some truth to that.

I happen to know opposing counsel
is a fundamentally kind man,
sensitive.

He chose to exploit my Asperger's
syndrome to win this case.
My very best friend,
a lawyer that I had a case
against not too long ago,
he, too, exploited my Asperger's.

He's a very good man who
opted for cruelty as a strategy.

If Marcie Cooper comes out of this experience
thinking that people can be cruel,
even the kind, sensitive ones,
if she's learned that she will be judged
not simply on merit
or the content of her character,
but on how she looks
and socializes with others,
she's gotten an education,
one that will serve her in life.

This is a free society.
People get to choose their friends.
Clubs get to choose their members.
Sometimes it's very ugly and unfair.
That's... life!


学校是我们让孩子受教育的地方,
相信他们是未来的主人翁.

我们真的希望看到未来社会中,
这些害羞的人就被踢出团体圈子吗,
只有那些外表出众
以及受欢迎的人才能大肆庆祝,
而那些不受欢迎的跟害羞的人就被遗弃??

ΓΚΤ 这个国际性的社团正推广这种歪理
这是不能够被接受的.

我能够想到他们让Marcie Cooper加入.
的唯一理由不是真的想让她参加,
而使只是想要把她踢出去看她出糗而已,
无耻.

========================

大学也是一个让学生们开始接触社会的地方.


外面的世界是十分肮脏的.
大家都知道"只有亮丽的人才能站在舞台上"
让我告诉你们一些真相.

辩方的律师是我认识的人
.他是一个非常善良的人,
非常感性.
他想利用我阿斯伯格症的弱点去赢了官司.

我最好的朋友,
就在不久之前另外一个案子中,
他也采用了类似的手法.
他是一个非常好的人,
但同时当处于不同阵营时也非常残酷.

如果Marcie Cooper今天她走出来
,并且知道了有时候人们就是残酷的,
即使是那些善良,感性的人也如此,

她会学习到一个人
不是光内在美就足够了,
也得注意外貌跟人际关系,
如此一来她便上了重要的一课,
而宝贵的经验会让她受用一辈子.

这是一个民主的社会
,每个人都有选择朋友的权力.
俱乐部可以选择他们的会员.
有时候的确就是肮脏跟不公平.

但这就是人生!

2008/1/10

心蓝

岁末,年初。
辞旧迎新。

记得2007的新年,偶就群发这样一条SM:
“过去的一年,

你经历了什么呢?
你得到了什么,
你又失去了什么?
你因何事高兴了,
又因何事悲伤了?
铭记过去,
珍惜现在,
愿你。。。。。”

又一个新年快到了,
每逢佳节倍思春。
过去的一年,
自己又经历怎样的成长呢?
不像2006年,有三天的拨乱反正,
不像2006年,有忘乎所以的1101,
不像2006年,当然不像。
因为它是2007。

2007,
最多的时间,
似乎都在qq群里have fun。
看试智慧的闪现,
实乃无聊的犯贱!

2007,
每次在电话之中,
听到我父母在说镇上的这个走了
那个又走了,
我就在想,
什么时候我的父母会离开我,
什么时候我又轮到我的离开。
唉,呵呵
生活毕竟还要继续,
珍惜现在,
“生活吧,
就像每天都是世界末日一样!”

2007,
看到了黑,
也看到了白。
天朝给资阳下拨了1个多亿的教育资金,
小镇都分得了100多万,
终于看到了天朝还有一点希望。

2007,
看了House,
懂得了Everybody lies.
看了Dexter,
懂得了Everybody Has a wolf in his heart.
看了Boston Legal,
懂得了Denny Crane!

我的2008年又会是怎样的呢?
who knows?
who cares?

ps:
我现在终于理解到蝴蝶效应了,BIDU HR把偶的学院搞错了,这一小动作,害得偶。。。。

1,10点半,收到2631,通知到学院收发室领包裹。
2,11点半,未接电话7206,没注意,没收到,没回拨。
3,2点,到计算机学院收发室,未上班,门关,未遂。
4,3点,到计算机学院收发室,无包裹,未给偶打电话,让偶到学校收发室瞧瞧。
5,到学校收发室,无包裹,未给偶打电话,一个好心人,突然想起这个似乎是2631数学学院收发室的号码。
6,回拨电话,无人接听,再而三,三而再,通了,老师不在,请4点半再call。
7,4点半call,对方分机有问题。再拨,换电话接听,通知速到东212。
8,到212,老师在找,好奇,怎么了?不见了。。。。。N分钟后,终于找到。
9,邮局领取。

到邮局的路上,近日郁闷的我,竟然笑了,生活真TMD有趣。